On Friday I asked if any readers had theories on the origins of this photo since I admitted I only recognized my son The Fonz, had never met the other three people in my life, and had no idea where the picture was taken.
Did I forget to mention my children are models?
I probably never mentioned it because it’s obnoxious enough when people claim their kids are cute, but it reaches a whole new level of obnoxiousness when people claim their children are paid for looking cute.
In the interest of full disclosure, I should say my kids are models*, and the asterisk comes because they live in China, and if you know anything about the Chinese, you know they love white kids. When The Fonz was a baby we would push his stroller through the market and crowds of dozens and dozens of Chinese would gather around to admire him and ask if they could pick him up or give him a bite of the apple they were eating. It’s very flattering to be the parents of such admired kids—until you hear someone compliment Todd’s very ordinary looking children. (Sorry, Todd. I’m not the only one who thinks so.)
Whether they deserve the attention or not, the love of white children has resulted in opportunities for my sons to model a couple times each month, not enough for me to become their agent and quit my job, but the financial incentives are secondary. Modeling will provide a self-esteem foundation for the rest of their lives. If they attend college in the United States, other kids will ask what they were doing before they moved to the US, and Optimist Prime can answer, “Oh, I’ve been working abroad as a model. No big deal. I’m just like everybody else. I put my designer jeans on one leg at a time.” He doesn’t have to say where he modeled or mention he was only a kid, because the point has been made–he was of the modeling profession—an elite group of people who are better than the rest of use because they get paid for their looks.
This self-esteem foundation will provide them with the kind of confidence that tricks people into thinking they’re attractive, no matter how ugly they might actually be as adults.
Modeling has also been good for my self-esteem. Many of my wife’s friends say OP looks just like me and then mention how cute he is. Isn’t that the same as saying I’m attractive? I like to think so. Just don’t tell my wife you think OP is cute unless you want her in your face accusing you of flirting with her husband.
Oddly enough, when my kids first started modeling, it had the unexpected side-effect of reminding me to keep in better touch with my family.
Me: “Hi, sis. This is Paul calling again.”
My sister: “Hey, Paul. How are you?”
Me: “No time to talk, my kids are late for another modeling shoot.”
My sister: “But you called me!”
Me: “Busy, busy. Sorry, can’t talk now. Not everyone has the luxury of sitting around all day watching their kids not model.”
Eventually I grew weary of taunting my family because it was like kicking an ugly child while he was down.
See if you can spot the five-year-old Optimist Prime in this clip. Hint: He’s not one of the Asian kids.
gerknoop
April 23, 2012
Was he that last one? “I like this story reader” ????
I agree, it “is” very important as a child to be recognized at beautiful!
I myself held the title of “Little Miss America” in 1965 yep, that’s right.
It really helped my Mother climb the social ladder! I in turn got some paper dolls out of the deal. LOLOL
The Good Greatsby
April 23, 2012
Yup, and he nailed it on his first take. He’s a real professional.
Ricky Anderson
April 23, 2012
I feel like a loser already. Well done!
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
That’s why I hesitated to bring it up. I didn’t want to create any hard feelings.
Michelle Gillies
April 23, 2012
I guess this means we will have to stop teasing you about dressing up OP in drag.
Of course they are both wearing makeup…right?
susielindau
April 23, 2012
Soooooo cuuuuute! Don’t tell OP that. Boys don’t want to be called “cute.”
charlywalker
April 23, 2012
Nice to see there is diversity in all countries’ advertising………..
As far as children & modeling…..saw too much of it when living in L.A. L.A. Land…..too many toddlers & tiara’s…. the only one I know that made it is the sister of my son’s friend from Pre-school…she was up for an Oscar last year…she really has True Grit…
Nice Post.
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
I hear it’s competitive in other places but we’d never do it if it meant pushing them or having to do any actual work ourselves.
Annie
April 23, 2012
His delivery was spot on. The emotion, the timing…I was in tears.
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
He made me want to rush out and get a story reader, except we had already gotten one for free.
pegoleg
April 23, 2012
Let me guess – he was the kid who said “wow” when he opened the book?
You’re on your way toward early retirement as the manager of your kids’ careers – congratulations! You’ll be a one-man sweat shop.
She's a Maineiac
April 23, 2012
I was thinking the same thing. Why bother working anymore? I smell a cheesy Disney sitcom/boy band in your near future, GG.
Tori Nelson
April 23, 2012
Way cooler than making the boy participate in Glitz Pageants. I might have to change my Momager plans 🙂
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
We had to find them an outlet for getting dressed up and putting on make-up after the pageant circuit discriminated against them for not being girls.
philosophermouseofthehedge
April 23, 2012
Funny funny! (Yet another reason to travel)
She's a Maineiac
April 23, 2012
Great. Another reason I should move to China. When strangers see my kids out in public here, they just run in the other direction.
She's a Maineiac
April 23, 2012
I forgot to ask you–did it bother you at all that they didn’t ask you to model with your son and instead chose a man that is obviously wearing fake glasses and (gasp) no smoking jacket?
pegoleg
April 23, 2012
And we still don’t have an answer to the all-important question, what’s this an ad for? I pick flooring.
She's a Maineiac
April 23, 2012
Or tiny tuxedos? Or fake apples? (or are those tomatoes?)
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
Actually, I really don’t know what it’s an ad for. I would assume flooring based on the whole set of pictures.
Audrey
April 23, 2012
Hilarious! And OP is a super cute 5 year old. 🙂 NOT flirting with you (sorry, Mrs. Greatsby!).
spilledinkguy
April 23, 2012
So… not only will the story reader help me, but I will like it, too?! Sign me up!
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
“I like my story reader” does kind of seem like a tepid endorsement.
savesprinkles1234
April 24, 2012
Really cute! I can tell how amazingly proud you are of your talented boys!
gojulesgo
April 24, 2012
Okay. Now I KNOW I need to have kids. Not only for the funny stories, but the extra paycheck.
(Seriously, though, your kids ARE adorable!)
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
I’ve been pushing them to drop out of school and work full-time but their mother has quite selfishly prevented them from pursuing my dreams.
bearmancartoons
April 24, 2012
So I see you got your kid selling knockoff Disney toys.
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
Not knockoff. My kids have worked for Disney many times and will grow up to write tell-all memoirs about Disney exploitation.
Emily Cannell
April 24, 2012
Paul- ya`ll must move to Japan pronto. Western models supply the bulk of the talent for all commercials- print and video. You can all be models. Unless it`s an herbal supplement- then it must be local talent.
Dana
April 24, 2012
At first I was disappointed that OP wasn’t one of the kids who got to say “wow!” when they opened the book, but his “I like this story reader!” MORE than makes up for my initial disappointment. He nailed it!
Life in the Boomer Lane
April 24, 2012
I love that your kids are models. My son did a couple videos when he was younger. One was a DVD to train kids in safe driving techniques. Micah was the Bad Boy who refused to drive safely. The kids all looked at him and said, “What a jerk!”
Rachael Black
April 24, 2012
Yark! Unfortunately when The Demon Seed was conceived I purchased the wrong model. Did not read the fine print on the box… *Model intended for export only. Do Not Subject to Water. If Model is Maintained for 13 Years Sell To Local Gypsies.
Hell, the optometrist didn’t insist in bi-focals until far too late.
-Great clip, fab pics and a big congrats to you and the family. Smiling as always at your posts
The Good Greatsby
April 24, 2012
Many parents don’t realize that their child might have been a star against decreased competition.
1pointperspective
April 24, 2012
Don’t let them peak too early in their careers. Pacing boys, pacing!
monicastangledweb
April 24, 2012
Poor Todd. He’s always getting the short end of the stick.
The Good Greatsby
April 25, 2012
I advised him to marry someone better looking so his kids would be cuter but he ignored my good advice.
Angie Z.
April 24, 2012
Holy cow, he looks JUST LIKE YOU. Which wasn’t apparent until the end when he talks (“I like story reader!”). Crazy! This is way cooler than knowing someone whose kid walked across in the background of Terms of Endearment. This is genuinely cool.
mistyslaws
April 24, 2012
Let me see . . . was he the African American boy? I was always really bad at these types of guessing games.
Oh, and we have one of those readers. It’s pretty crappy. Thanks a lot, OP!! If I ever see that super cute and famous kid of yours, I’m demanding a refund!
The Good Greatsby
April 25, 2012
The reader may be crappy but it still beats having to read to my kids myself.
HoaiPhai
April 24, 2012
Hey, now that Optimist Prime is in show biz, do you think he could introduce me to Gong Li? I’ll bring some of those frozen pizzas you like!
The Good Greatsby
April 25, 2012
I’ve been trying to meet Gong Li for years so if OP had an inside track I would have taken advantage by now.
Laura
April 25, 2012
Okay, but … you don’t know where the picture was taken? How do these modelling gigs work? Does some guy just pull up in a van, claim to be from a modelling agency, and take your kids away? Do they promise to bring them back? Do they always bring back the same ones?
The Good Greatsby
April 25, 2012
We used to go with them when the kids were smaller, but now their agent and a driver takes them to these shoots. Sometimes we see a picture of one of the kids in a mall or a catalogue or downtown in People’s Square and we have no idea where the picture was taken.
Spectra
April 26, 2012
Sorry to say, I could not pick out Optimus Prime from the lineup. All white kids look alike to me.
Curly Carly
April 26, 2012
This is awesome. You have the cutest little black kid. Seriously though, he did a good job. Maybe one day he’ll learn to speak English with a Chinese accent like the other kids in the clip. That’ll really throw them for a loop.
It reminded me of the episode of Friends where Joey admits that he was in a Japanese commercial for men’s lipstick.
The Simple Life of a Country Man's Wife
April 26, 2012
Your son’s line and delivery was just too adorable. I bet it’s fun to watch how your boys grow and develop confidence in every opportunity they are presented.