My librarian wife went out of town for work last weekend, leaving me alone with the kids and providing more evidence of how libraries tear families part. I told the kids if I was going to spend twice as much time with them in their mother’s absence, they would have to work harder to provide me writing material.
My 8-year-old son The Fonz and I were talking about my brothers and sisters and I asked him:
Me: Can you name your aunts and uncles?
Fonz: Um…no.
Me: Really? You can’t name a single one.
Fonz: Oh…I thought you meant name them.
Me: What?
Fonz: I thought you meant name my aunts and uncles.
Me: You mean you thought I was asking you to give them a new name like naming a baby?
Fonz: (Blank look)
Me: Why would I ask you to give your aunts and uncles names?
Fonz: I don’t know.
I’m not sure why he would assume I meant that kind of naming, but I can understand why that would be a lot of pressure for an 8-year-old.
On Sunday my 11-year-old Optimist Prime had just completed an impressive QB performance for his football team and was excited his girlfriend had come to see his game. I told him:
Me: I know you’re excited that she came to see you, but I noticed a lot of other girls seemed pretty impressed, too.
OP: Dad, it doesn’t matter because I’m a one-man girl.
He insisted the words had come out a little differently than he intended. His brother asked him:
Fonz: If you kiss your girlfriend would you tell me?
OP: Um…
Me: If OP told you, would you tell a bunch of people?
Fonz: Probably 40 people.
I spared OP learning the lesson that you should never tell The Fonz a secret.
Earlier in the week OP had a parent teacher conference. His art teacher outlined some goals for him and asked him how he thought he could do better. He listed some areas for improvement. After he finished she asked:
Teacher: Is there anything I can do better?
OP: How do you feel about wearing a poncho?
Teacher: I have a green one maybe we can talk about later.
Otherwise he seems to be doing well in school.
Mrs. Greatsby’s parents asked her to fill out a Christmas shopping list for our boys. After she made a list of likes and interests and added a few possibilities to a present wish list, The Fonz added:
‘Cigarettes, any variety’
I’m sure this was a joke, especially because he remembers we once gave OP cigarettes in his stocking to teach him an important lesson about peer pressure: You shouldn’t smoke just because your friends are doing it; even if your friend is Santa Claus.
Our family occasionally watches the new version of Doctor Who together. One of the scariest episodes is called ‘Blink’, and we told the kids they weren’t old enough to watch it. One of The Fonz’s friends told him about it, and he insisted he was old enough to watch it. I told him it was too scary for three months and he kept insisting he wouldn’t be scared. His friend told him the whole plot and he was certain it wouldn’t bother him.
Fonz: I won’t get scared.
Me: It’s too scary.
Fonz: I know won’t get scared.
Me: You’re going to get scared.
Fonz: I promise I won’t get scared.
After three months of him asking I finally gave in and let him watch it. After 30 seconds he pulled a blanket up to his eyes and whispered:
Fonz: I thought it was going to be a lot less scary.
Part of me is glad my kids are funny. The other part of me is exhausted. With every member of the family performing, there’s nobody left in the audience.
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S. Trevor Swenson
November 20, 2012
I think you should start the little ones on earlier Dr Who’s….Circa Tom Baker
The Good Greatsby
November 20, 2012
I’ve tried showing them some Tom Baker but it’s a bit too slow for them. They don’t seem to appreciate the charm of the bad special effects and terrible production values.
georgettesullins
November 20, 2012
A co-worker–fellow teacher–shared with me about her daughter–“Honestly if I told her to crack the door, I think she would go fetch an axe.” In time I shared with her, our girls must be cousins as my daughter couldn’t understand why I would want to “pound the pavement.” When we move too fast–those younger ones just hold us up enough to really make us smile or burst out laughing.
You are blessed with all that material. Hope you have a peaceful and restful Thanksgiving!
The Good Greatsby
November 20, 2012
I’m glad they occasionally say something funny, because everything else coming out of their mouths is nonsense.
joehoover
November 20, 2012
You could all be an act, I’ve paid good money to see The Trachtenburg Family Slideshow Players.
The Good Greatsby
November 20, 2012
We’d probably like to use Greatsby as our family name but we’ll consider Trachtenburg if that one is already taken.
joehoover
November 20, 2012
That is already taken, check them out, they’re great.
Don't Quote Lily
November 20, 2012
Lol…a one-man girl.
This is why people have kids…writing material.
The Good Greatsby
November 20, 2012
It wasn’t exactly the reason I had kids but it’s the reason I continue to spend time with the kids.
Jorie
November 20, 2012
Hahaha to the “cigarettes, any variety.” That’s pretty smart humor for an 11-year-old.
The Good Greatsby
November 20, 2012
Makes me wonder what kind of material he’ll be writing as an adult.
Lorna's Voice
November 20, 2012
Question: do they know that they are funny? I hope not. I love a kid who is funny but doesn’t know it! 😉
Gow
November 20, 2012
LOL – “How do you feel about wearing a poncho?” . . . . . . 3/4 into that sentence I thought it was about to veer in a whole other direction.
Curmudgeon-at-Large
November 20, 2012
How long will it be before your kids realize that you are using them for comedy material and ask for payment?
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
But don’t they owe me something for all the free comedy training I’ve given them over the years?
Love and Lunchmeat
November 20, 2012
Your kids are friends with Santa Claus? Dammit, my kids are NEVER reading your blog. They’d get way too jealous.
Bridgesburning Chris King
November 20, 2012
Hmm you definitely need an audience. Perhaps you could take your act on the road? The danger of course is that those young’uns learned from the best and you may be in danger of actually being the audience as they surpass you!
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
I’m not the best audience for them because so much of their material is stuff they’ve stolen from me but improved upon.
Rachael Black
November 21, 2012
Love it.
Also watch the new Doctor Who with my daughter… she’s 19. One of our favorite episodes is ‘blink.’ The problem with Doctor Who is that so many episodes make me (and the Demon Seed aka daughter) cry. Now, that’s scary.
Oh, and the Demon Seed, after years of my not smoking, took up the habit once reaching college. When she’s visiting not only does she schlep her dirty laundry home (she goes to school about 300 miles away in San Francisco) she brings with her the never-ending craving for the delicious poisonous goodness that is a ciggie.
Kids are pre-programmed to make parents berserk as well as laugh. It never ends. thank the gods.
thoughtsappear
November 21, 2012
Tell OP to hold out for a blue poncho. Green..psssht….
fishducky
November 21, 2012
As someone once asked, if all the world’s a stage, where does the audience sit?
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
It’s a valid point. I feel I’m constantly forced into the front row when I’d prefer to be in the back.
Life With The Top Down
November 21, 2012
That fact that OP even knows the word “poncho” is impressive, requesting his teacher wear one…I’m on the freaking floor!
mistyslaws
November 21, 2012
I’m not sure why you wouldn’t have warned your poor young impressionable son that the show was going to be scary. Don’t make me call CPS (or the Chinese equivalent) on you!!
Jackie Cangro
November 21, 2012
When I was about the Fonz’s age, I remember insisting that Poltergeist wouldn’t be scary. I had nightmares for a week.
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
I think we all had that experience. Mine was Watcher in the Woods. I couldn’t look in the mirror for years. Pictures of my hair during this time period will verify this.
Tori Nelson
November 21, 2012
Chain-smoking Santa is pretty brilliant. I like my stocking stuffers to come with life lessons.
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
Teaching someone a lesson is really the greatest gift you can give. And often the cheapest gift you can give.
Elyse
November 21, 2012
The perfect statement of family life, GG: “With every member of the family performing, there’s nobody left in the audience.” Brilliant.
pegoleg
November 21, 2012
Exactly. That’s why I always insist on having dull family members around.
Elyse
November 21, 2012
Please send some my way. Me I will have my vegan vegetarian militant bird-loving sister-in-law. Can’t wait.
The Byronic Man
November 21, 2012
Well, it’s a harsh world out there, and kids have to learn about murderous, animate statues sometime. Better from a doctor than the misinformation they pick up on the playground.
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
You’re right. We weren’t sure he was ready to watch it but the information he was getting on the playground wasn’t accurate and we felt we had to straighten him out at home.
pegoleg
November 21, 2012
Just when we thought there couldn’t possibly be MORE evidence of how libraries tear families apart…
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
We’ve placed libraries on a pedestal for too long. It’s time we took stock of how much damage they’re causing.
DUH'Merica
November 21, 2012
My wife and I have four kids in our blended family; 14, 12, 12, 9 and the comedy never stops. At least once a day I’m left amazed at something one of them says. “I’m a one man girl”, hilarious.
Facetious Firecracker
November 21, 2012
I hope if I have kids someday, they’re as witty and intelligent as yours. Hysterical.
Tar-Buns
November 21, 2012
It’s pretty cool that your kids provide material for your blog. Keep up the giggles 🙂
Kim
November 21, 2012
Humor from the children is strictly forbidden in our home… The less funny they are… The funnier I seem!!!
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
I don’t want to compete with them. I liked it better when everything I did seemed hilarious because they had no comedy instincts of their own.
thesinglecell
November 21, 2012
You’re like the headliner who’s trying to make sure the opening acts don’t kill before they get to you. That’s a hell of a burden on one guy. Hell of a burden.
The Good Greatsby
November 21, 2012
You’re right. I’m sick of going on after them. When we have people over for dinner, I want to be the life of the party. I don’t want to have to compete with them to get my one-liner in first.
Spectra
November 21, 2012
That’s understandable. Maybe put the kids to bed early before guests arrive, get your finest performance in, then wake the kids just at that point where the party seems to be dying down. Sleepy, half- witted kids with tousled hair and crumpled pajamas being forced to recite things against their will could be uproarious entertainment for adults.
susielindau
November 21, 2012
I have an almost 21 and just turned 23 year old and it is still exhausting! My son’s car has been in the shop for a week and they can’t fix it. He may have an opportunity for an amazing job in LA, but he has one semester left. Nope. No sleep for me either!
Laura
November 21, 2012
I think the Fonz’s response to “Blink” makes perfect sense. It’s one of the most terrifying episodes ever, but if you describe the plot to someone, it actually doesn’t sound that scary.
kathrinjapan
November 22, 2012
You should increase your children’s allowance. Their material is priceless. What’s up with your 11 year old having a girlfriend?!? Mine just turned 11 and I’ve noticed whenever a girl is anywhere nearby, it’s the only time he stops talking. I’m so happy.
itsnotjustmeright
November 22, 2012
Reblogged this on It's Not Just Me, Right? and commented:
If you are in need of a giggle, read this….
HoaiPhai
November 22, 2012
I feel sorry for OP. I was never into sports but tried to go to all the sports matches in high school because the more skilled the jock, the more time he spent on the ice/field/diamond and the prettier his girlfriend. So while the sports guys were working up a sweat, I’d be in the stands, smelling good, and trying to pick up their girlfriends. I’m pretty sure I wasn’t the last guy to think of this dating strategy.
Aspiring Drummer
November 23, 2012
Blink is quite possibly the best episode of the new Doctor Who. I felt silly when I first saw it at how terrified I was, but then I found out that pretty much everyone agrees with me. Phew.
spilledinkguy
November 24, 2012
I leave out a plate of Nicorette patches for Santa every year.
Perhaps this explains all the coal.
Rachael Black
November 24, 2012
Bob,
Am pretty sure the coal in our family’s stockings is a result of the latkas and gelt my daughter and I leave out. Face it, latkas aren’t too tasty after sitting out on a paper towel for hours.
Despite Santa’s predilection for cigars he’ll pry the Nicorette from my cold dead hands. At least The Fonz has his sights aimed high.
Carl D'Agostino
November 24, 2012
I still don’t like scary stuff esp blood drip stuff – Chuckie, Freddie and Jason. Whew, not for me. I don’t understand why its classified as entertainment.
pepperculpepper
November 28, 2012
I like this blog!
Beckers
November 29, 2012
Our house is just an audience waiting for performers. Can we rent one of them for the rest of the school year? You can have him back for the summer.