It has become common among some Christian groups to greet life’s decisions with the question, “What would Jesus do?” This theological consideration is sometimes turned into the acronym “WWJD?” and printed on bumper stickers, t-shirts, bracelets, and a collection of other tacky clothing I’m pretty sure Jesus would never wear. If Jesus wouldn’t wear that “WWJD?” t-shirt–and you would–then you’re doing something that Jesus wouldn’t do. Is that ironic? Maybe. Is that an ugly t-shirt? Definitely.
If you’re a Christian parent, you run the risk of diluting the influence of Jesus as an example if you start overusing “WWJD?” as a source of positive influence and begin extending it to every exhausting parental challenge.
“What would Jesus do, Bobby?”
“Jesus would eat his vegetables.”
“Jesus would go to bed right now.”
“Jesus would SIT DOWN on Santa’s lap and SMILE AND STOP CRYING so we can take this picture to commemorate Jesus’ birth and ALL GO HOME!”
If you overuse Jesus, it won’t be long before your kids start to realize Jesus sounds a lot like the kid in class who reminds the teacher to give homework.
Besides, the idea of pointing to Jesus as an example has its limitations once you get past morality and begin approaching theological grey-area subjects like style and charisma. I feel good about the moral progress of 1.5 of my 2 children, and now I’m focusing more on teaching them how to be classy. Because my wife and I have two sons, I’m sensitive to my wife feeling left out if we three boys are collectively too boyish, so I’ve made a big effort to teach the boys manners and to be polite in the presence of a lady, and this means good table manners, no swearing, no farting, no belching.
The world’s religions give very little practical advice on posture, grooming, table etiquette, etc., so what example do I use as a benchmark in teaching them class? When one of them burps at the table I ask, “What would James Bond do?”
WWJBD? James Bond is classy. He’s smart. He’s smooth with the ladies. He’s always polite, even when greeting his worst enemy. He plays a mean game of baccarat and if he loses he doesn’t cry and throw game pieces. He never forgets to wear pants. He’s a man’s man, but he never lowers himself to belch, fart, or swear in front of a woman. In fact I doubt he does it in front of men either. While Jesus holds down the morality fort, James Bond can be our example of classiness. James Bond has taught my sons all sorts of lessons:
James Bond would wear a shirt at the dinner table.
James Bond would flush after using the toilet.
James Bond wouldn’t wear the same clothes to school four days in a row.
James Bond wouldn’t give his dad a hug for no other reason than needing a place to wipe his nose.
James Bond would never eat anything off of the floor.
I must warn you the example of James Bond does have some limitations. Don’t try and say, “James Bond wouldn’t jump on the furniture,” or, “James Bond wouldn’t play with matches,” because sometimes he does jump on the furniture and sometimes he does play with matches, and sometimes he does both at the same time.
carldagostino
May 26, 2011
Kids oh yeah. JB would never take out garbage, would never mow lawn, would never do homework and as a matter of fact he is too smart to have to go to school. Plus he always has a top shelf drink in his hand. So even thought I’m 11 years old, gimme the car keys , Dad.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
James Bond may always have a drink in his hand but you never see him drunk.
savesprinkles1234
May 26, 2011
This is hilarious! Your boys will be dripping with class!
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
As long as they’re not dripping with anything else I’ll be happy.
She's a Maineiac
May 26, 2011
Thanks for the tip. I’ll have to use WWJBD today. This morning my son is still wearing the same “You Can’t Beat Mario” t-shirt he put on in February.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
If he’s going to wear any shirt for three straight months, that Mario shirt sounds like a deserving candidate.
thoughtsappear
May 26, 2011
You are a genius! I’m going to try this with Boo and Radley…all they do is burp and fart.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
May the power of James Bond convince them to hold it in.
Invisible Mikey
May 26, 2011
Just make sure they know who’s M.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
I’m assuming it’s me, right?
georgettesullins
May 26, 2011
Brilliant! My grandson is coming for a month this summer. Thank you for equipping our household with a timely message.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
I hope my advice ensures a classy visit.
Annie
May 26, 2011
James Bond would never drive a crappy car and he would carry a gun. James Bond would date his hot HS teacher, and he would have a fake ID. The teen years could be interesting at your house.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
When they reach the teenage years I’ll start saying, “What would the Fonz do?”
ryoko861
May 26, 2011
I can see this scenario:
You to son #1: “Why does mommy have a dart in her arm??”
Son #1: “Well, I was tired of brother #2 coming into my room all the time.”
You to son #1 “So you threw a dart at mommy?”
Son #1: “No, I rigged my door latch to activate the lever that triggered my pen that I retrofitted to hold the dart which was set up precisely on my desk that is aimed at the exact height of brother #2’s head. When he opened the door, the mechanism on the pen would release the dart and hit brother #2. I would then drag him out of the room and he will have learned his lesson in not coming into my room anymore.”
You to son #1: “So that is how you decided to keep brother #2 out of your room?”
Son #1: “Well, yeah, I mean, you’re always asking us “What would James Bond do?”
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
Part of me would discourage violence, but the other part would be impressed by the ingenuity.
ryoko861
May 27, 2011
That’s part of James Bond though. You’ll have to lay some really good logical reasoning on him on why he can’t create secret gadgets for getting back at his brother that cause pain and explosions.
How about using Mr. Rogers?
Girly
May 27, 2011
🙂
paigekellerman
May 26, 2011
I’d say this is far better advice that what I’ll tell my children, WWMD? What would Macgyver do? While your sons will, no doubt, be making martinis for young women, while charming them into revealing where they’ve stashed the Mona Lisa, my kids will be donning unattractive leather jackets, combing their mullet and sticking chewing gum to explosives.
There’s obviously a lot of parenting lessons I can garner from your site.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
If my kids were stronger in science I might have encouraged them in the Macgyver direction instead.
Amy
May 26, 2011
As long as they don’t use the Roger Moore James Bond as a reference, then this is great advice.
The Good Greatsby
May 26, 2011
My wife didn’t like Roger Moore either. I would probably point to Pierce Brosnan as the classiest James Bond.
pegoleg
May 27, 2011
Have you swilled down too many martinis – shaken, not stirred???
There is only one James Bond. Brosnan is marginally acceptable as a substitute ONLY because, in his later years, Sir Sean Connory may have slowed down the chase scenes too much with his walker.
k8edid
May 27, 2011
Oh, but there is only one TRUE bond – and that is Sean Connery. I would watch that man clip his toenails – and he would look very classy doing it, I’m sure.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
I do love Sean Connery, but I think Pierce Brosnan was classier as Bond. I’m not saying he was better, just classier.
thelifeofjamie
May 26, 2011
Would James Bond sleep past 5:30? If so, I’m using it on my kids who have no idea who James Bond is! Maybe WWED, What Would Elmo Do?
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
I think James Bond would sleep past 5:30. I think a lot of people would. Why do your kids have to get up so early?
omawarisan
May 26, 2011
There is no substitute for classy. Maybe I just haven’t been told about it.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
It’s sold in the same aisle as the butter substitutes.
Renee Davies
May 26, 2011
I don’t know, sometimes I think WWWWFD is more a propos for life’s scenarios. I think “What Would World Wrestling Federation Do” can come in handy in a lot of situations.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
Especially situations that call for hitting somebody in the back with a chair.
madtante
May 26, 2011
While Jesus holds down the morality fort, James Bond holds his moral farts.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
Well played.
Tori Nelson
May 26, 2011
“Is that ironic? Maybe. Is that an ugly t-shirt? Definitely”…. Haha! Thinking of at least a million ways this applies to the overly religious.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
I w0rry Jesus will look around at that tacky t–shirt wearing crowd and wish he had cooler friends.
girlonthecontrary
May 26, 2011
-Dad, should I have unprotected sex with this lady I just met?
– Well, son, what would James Bond do?
You’re kids are going to have LOADS of STDs, but I imagine they will be very dashing. Also, they will probably only have the sexy STDs like herpes (pronounce it with a French accent) and none of the gross ones like eye gonorrhea.
cooper
May 27, 2011
but at least the champagne would be chilled properly…
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
I just assume if you’re as classy as James Bond your classiness creates a natural immunity to STDs.
spilledinkguy
May 27, 2011
dun
dun-dun-dun
dun dun
Hmm… instrumental theme music doesn’t seem to translate from audio very well.
Not a classy move. I doubt 007 would have tried that. But at least I’m wearing pants. Or I would be, had I not bet and then lost them playing baccarat. 🙂
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
I assume you were wearing your solid gold pants, right? Whenever I play baccarat and lose and the other players want to get paid, I tell them I have no money with me and they always ask, “Well, what about those solid gold pants you’re wearing?”
cooper
May 27, 2011
So Brain Boitano is passe now?
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
Was he ever not passe?
writerwoman61
May 27, 2011
“James Bond wouldn’t give his dad a hug for no other reason than needing a place to wipe his nose. That’s what your pocket square is for…and what did I tell you about using your diamond cufflinks to carve your initials in the martini glasses?”
Your pieces are always funny, Paul, but this piece has Giggles Galore…that was her name, wasn’t it?
Wendy
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
If there’s one think that gets me mad at the kids, it’s when they don’t take care of their diamond cufflinks.
Laura
May 27, 2011
There’s always that one scene in every James Bond movie where he goes into the lab to get new toys, and he winds up messing with stuff and almost blowing the place up. So if you’re going to raise your kids to be like him, I’d advise keeping them out of all your science and engineering labs. And also probably the kitchen.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
This is why I haven’t taught them the code to my mad scientist laboratory.
youngamericanwisdom.com
May 27, 2011
Here’s my plan…I’ve printed out a picture of James Bond with “WWJBD” written underneath. It will be hung on the refrigerator. Each time one of my children misbehaves, I’m not going to yell or scream, I’m going to calmly point at the picture on the fridge. I’ll keep you posted.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
A toast to James Bond bringing class to your refrigerator!
nancyfrancis
May 27, 2011
I see many practical, yet inappropriate uses for WWJBD. He is a ladies man, afterall 😉
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
The kids may have some awkward questions about James Bond’s example concerning women when they get a little older.
lifeintheboomerlane
May 27, 2011
I, personally, have always ascribed to the WWOD (What would Oprah do?) First of all, it is way easier to just say “wod?” Second, every answer will be “blah-blah-blah and then buy cute shoes.” You don’t get that with Jesus or James.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
That’s true. I realize neither Jesus nor James offer any useful advice on what’s in fashion this season.
bridgesburning
May 27, 2011
Once they really catch on you are going to have to inveterate in some cool tuxes!
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
My 7-year-old wore a tux yesterday and my 9-year-old wore a tuxedo t-shirt. Seriously.
amblerangel
May 27, 2011
I’ll check in in a few years when they’re telling you about Pussy Galore…..
“Just doing what James would do Dad… just like you advised…..”
Hippie Cahier
May 27, 2011
Are they requesting their chocolate milk shaken, not stirred?
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
I’m just glad they’re only requesting chocolate milk.
Jillian Harvie
May 27, 2011
James bond doesn’t know how to make farts from his armpits.. how come I want to be james bond?
Girly
May 27, 2011
Oh, I thought you were gonna say What Would Jack Black Do… that’s very different.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
I’m not sure what category of teaching-my-children I would feel comfortable turning over to Jack Black.
Lunar Euphoria
May 27, 2011
Brilliant!
I wonder if I could train my husband with your “WWJBD?” method.
James Bond would never walk around a movie theater with a toothpick hanging from his mouth.
Yours is a highly marketable idea.
The Good Greatsby
May 27, 2011
Is it a highly marketable idea? Allow me to test it by asking you to give me $20.
Lunar Euphoria
May 27, 2011
I’d need a tacky t-shirt or bracelet with the letters first, of course.
berettaluvz26
May 27, 2011
Yet another parenting lesson to take to heart.
Thomas Stazyk
May 27, 2011
Are you planning any more kids? Who will you use for a role model if you have a daughter?
Binky
May 27, 2011
Just don’t ask them what would James Bond do when you’re giving them driving lessons. Or if they’re holding a gun.
flippingchannels
May 27, 2011
If the internet hosted more parenting advice of this spectacular caliber, we would all be better off.
mangoseason
May 27, 2011
even better: What Would Jack Bauer Do?
mommysnest
May 27, 2011
Well shoot – that doesn’t work with girls. 😛